Veils of Shame in Family System – Part 2

Shame is the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing we are flawed and therefore unworthy of acceptance and belonging. Brene Brown In my previous post I was trying to describe a bit how the shame motive is embedded in our social and cultural relationships, and how it works invisibly (unconsciously) in us – like … More Veils of Shame in Family System – Part 2

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Authenticity and Systemic Constellation Work

Are you afraid of being spontaneous? Do you feel sometimes like missing your true Self in everyday routines and in your attitudes in relationships? Every time when I introduce the concept of Systemic Constellation Work (SCW) to people who don’t have any direct experience with this method – I do some kind of self-examination, asking … More Authenticity and Systemic Constellation Work

The Language of Love or Prisoners of Conditioned Mind

The Source of Love is in the heart, not in the mind. A nursing home; a dutiful daughter (let’s call her Chris) visits her old father regularely there, and he always enjoys seeing her. She asks him routinely how is he going, and he answers by telling little stories from his life there. Then he … More The Language of Love or Prisoners of Conditioned Mind

Love can stop your Fear…Fear can stop your Loving…

At our last Systemic Constellation workshop on 4th of November participants had an opportunity to have a direct experience of a Mind-Spirit Constellation. It was done in small groups of three; one person was a Client, another one was a representative of a Parent for the Client, and the third person was representing the Client’s … More Love can stop your Fear…Fear can stop your Loving…

Known and Unknown

At the Systemic Constellation Workshop on 26th of Aug., I offered a mediation exercise about Unknown, created by Bert Hellinger. It was received by participants with a positive feedback, so I thought to publish it here for the guests of this blog. UNKNOWN (quoted after B.Hellinger live presentation in Kuala Lumpur 2009) (the best way … More Known and Unknown